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Министерство общего и профессионального образования



Свердловской области.

Правовой Лицей имени Е. Р. Кастеля города Екатеринбурга.

Образовательная область: Филология.

Предмет: Английский язык.

Тема: “I preserve his
future, he preserves

my past.” (R. Bach). We all are from the childhood.

Исполнитель: Ученица 10 «Б» класса

Фамилия И. О.: Калашникова С. И.

Научный руководитель: Воронова М.В.



17 февраля 2001 года

Contents.

“I preserve his future, he preserves my past” (R. Bach).

We all are from the childhood.

1. Introduction (part 1)………………………………………………3

2. Part 2…………………………………………………………5

3. Conclusion (part 3)…………………………………………14

4. The list of literature………………………………………..17

Introduction (Part 1)

Everybody wants to know what is happening around him or her? We
hear about criminals, children’s creams and strange behaviour? If
analyse the last ten news-programmes, we’ll understand than the kid’s
problems stays on the same level with news about gas or oil. The
children’s problems are the most interesting and important one for the
majority of psychologists. They tries to understand everything what is
connected with children, because everybody believes that we can change a
kid, but we can not do the same with a man. Frankly speaking I disagree
with this statement. Is it means that a person can not understand and
solve all his problems? I think, that everybody does not believe in
this.

Really, nowadays everyone is surround by a great number of
problems. Some of them are really easy, and we don’t need any help in
their solving. However, life is not so primitive, the majority of
situations are really strange. If we want to cope with such
difficulties, we must understand the roots of them. We will never be
good at chemistry, physics and math without knowing the basic rules and
laws. The same is with the roots of human behaviour. We can not learn
about men’s conduct in different situations, else we’ll be able to
claimant people’s stresses and predict human reaction (it can be very
useful from the criminal side). Or, may be, we can ..!

There are a lot of points of view on a problem, where the origin
of this or that conduct is. Freud came to believe that all the roots of
possible complicates are laying in the sexual life of a person, Bacon
found them in the inward life, in men’s ghosts and idols. A great group
of people believes in mystic power, which controls people’s existents.
It means that everything has its own beginning. If we know the origins,
we will be able to give a right estimation to the situation and, of
course, to react in a proper way. But, if we can learn about math rules
from the special books, we can’t do the same, if we want to find a local

he special books, we can’t do the same, if we want to find a local
answer to the question:” where are the roots of human behaviour and
reaction? Of course, there are a lot of theories and conclusions, which
are connected with our topic. Nevertheless, the majority of them touch
upon a question about the childhood in any case. They are confident that
all information about our future life (precondition) we get in an early
age, that our problems are connected with childhood and the roots of
good and evil are not in the genes as commonly believe, but in the
earliest days of life. This idea is rather new and conflicting, but very
popular and under discussion. In this case it will not be only
interesting but greatly important to learn such material inside out, and
define at last, is it a solid theory, because, if it is, we’ll be able
to understand and claimant the impediments after memorising our past.
This problem is really dillicate. For it solution, we should work with
an enormous quantity theories of different thinkers (like Freud or Birn)
and writers (like Bach and Coalio). The main idea is that the majority
of conclusions belong to the pen of European scientists. Considering the
importance of this question, it is easy to understand that it’s
necessary to work with English writing material, because different
reports can give us inexact information, and make incorrect opinion of
situation. For this reason, my paper is in English. I think, it is not
very difficult to understand the aim of this work, of course. It
consists of consolidation the theories about the questions that all
our problems are from childhood, analysis of this material and response
to the issue of correctness of these ideas.



Part 2

Human infants seem so weak and helpless at birth that it is hard
to believe they are capable of much interaction with their environment.
In fact, not too long ago many people still wondered whether new-born
could even see or hear at all. In the last several decades, however,
research on the new-born has expanded greatly, and a very different view
has emerged. We now know that human infants are born with sensory
systems that are impressively able. They process information and learn
about their surroundings from the very moment of birth. They learn the
world and try to understand how to survive in it. Children acquire an
enormous amount of information in the twelve years of live. For Piaget’s
mind “to this age the personality is “shaped””.

Everything what children have learned during this years stays in
the subconscious. Of course, people cannot remember the experience of
such early age, but they use it, calling - intuition (instinct) or
presentiment. So, our reactions and deeds “depend on what we had put in
our mind” Lots of psychologists, the main of them is Freud, “came to
believe that current problems can often be traced back to childhood
experiences.”

“Unfortunately, these early experiences are not usually available to

ailable to
consciousness. Only through great effort can they be coaxed into active
memory,” – said Freud to this problem.

The ability to memorise depends on the development of brains.
And, in each term, the abilities a person’s brain can develop depend on
experiences in the first three years of life, the childhood. Studies on
abandoned and severely maltreated Romanian children, as an example,
revealed striking lesions in certain areas of the brain. The repeated
traumatization has led to an increased release of stress hormones which
have attacked the sensitive tissue of the brain and destroyed the new,
already build-up neurones. The areas of their brains responsible for the
“management” of their emotions are 20-30% smaller than in other children
of the same age. Obviously, all children (not only Romanian) who suffer
such abandonment and maltreatment will be damaged in this way.

The attitude to the children always has its results. An
American writer Alice Millir tried to understand, why some people
(Hitler, Stalin, Mao and common one’s) are so aggressive. She wrote:” I
found it logical that a child beaten often and deprived of loving
physical contact would quickly pick up the language of violence. For him
this language became the only effective means of communication
available. However, when I began to illustrate my thesis by drawing on
the examples of Hitler, Stalin, Mao, Ceacescu, when I tried to expose
the social consequences of child maltreatment, I first encountered
strong resistance. Repeatedly I was told,” I, too, was a battered child,
but that did not make me a criminal. When I asked these people for
details about their childhood, I was always told of a person who made
the difference, a sibling, a teacher, a neighbour, just somebody who
liked or even loved them but, at least in most cases, was unable to
protect them. Yet through his presence this person gave the child a
notion of trust and love. I call these persons “helping witnesses”.”
So, we see that these people became aggressive because they lack love
and protection in the childhood. It means that we depend not only
from our common surrounding, but from “the people from the past” If a
person lacked protection in the childhood, he will feel himself
uncomfortable and “even in a great horror” in the company

of people, he’ll want to protect himself and that’s why his reaction too


ordinary things will be rude. Many have also been lucky enough to find


“enlightened” and courageous “witnesses”, people who helped them to
recognise the injustices they suffered, the significance the hurtful
treatment had for them, and its influences on their whole life. They may
even suffer much in their life, may become drug addicted, and have
relationship problems, but thanks to the few good experience in their
childhood usually do not become criminals. “The criminal outcome seems
to be connected with a childhood that didn’t provide any helping
witness, that was a place of constant threat and fear,”- Miller thought.

a place of constant threat and fear,”- Miller thought.

The parents attitude to the kid finds its mirroring in his
future personality and behaviour. It has been observed again and again
that parents who tend to maltreat and neglect their children do it in
ways which resemble the treatment they endured in their own childhood,
without any conscious memory of their early experiences. Fathers who
sexually abuse their children are usually unaware of the fact that they
had themselves suffered the same abuse. It is rather in therapy, even if
ordered by the courts, that they can discover, sometimes stupefied,
their own history. And realise thereby that for years they have
attempted to act out their own scenario, just to get rid of it. The
majority of psychologists believe that the explanation of this fact is
that “information about the cruelty suffered during childhood remains
stored in the brain in the form of unconscious memories. For a child,
conscious experience of such treatment is impossible. If children are
not to break down completely under the pain and the fear, they must
repress that knowledge.” But the unconscious memories of the child who
has been neglected and maltreated, even before he has learned to speak,
drive the adult to reproduce those repressed scenes over and over again
in the attempt to liberate himself from the fears that cruelty has left
with him. For example, The German reformer Martin Luther was an
intelligent and educated man, but he hated all Jews and he encouraged
parents to beat their children. He was no perverted sadist like Hitler's
executioners. But 400 years before Hitler he was disseminating this kind
of destructive counsel. According to Eric Ericson's biography, Luther's
mother beat him severely even before he was treated this way by his
father and his teacher. He believed this punishment had "done him good"
and was therefore justified. The conviction stored in his body that if
parents do it then it must be right. This example shows, nothing that
a child learns later about morality at home, in school or in church will
ever have the same strong and long lasting effect as the treatment
inflicted on his or her body in the first few days, weeks and months.
“The lesson learned in the first three years cannot be expunged,” – said
Freud. So we can see that if a child learns from birth that
tormenting and punishing an innocent creature is the right thing to do,
and that the child's suffering must not be acknowledged, that message
will always be stronger than intellectual knowledge acquired at a later
stage. Alice Miller made really great research work and her
conclusions give us, at last, the hole picture of this situation:“
Usually away from home either praying in church or running the priest's
household. Stalin idealized his parents right up to the end of his life
and was constantly haunted by the fear of dangers, dangers that had long
since ceased to exist In the lives of all the tyrants I analyzed, I also

so
found without exception paranoid trains of thought bound up with their
biographies in early childhood and the repression of the experiences
they had been through. Mao had been regularly whipped by his father and
later sent 30 million people to their deaths but he hardly ever admitted
the full extent of the rage he must have felt for his own father, a very
severe teacher who had tried through beatings to "make a man" out of his
son. Stalin caused millions to suffer and die because even at the height
of his power his actions were determined by unconscious, infantile fear
of powerlessness. Apparently his father, a poor cobbler from Georgia,
attempted to drown his frustration with liquor and whipped his son
almost every day. His mother displayed psychotic traits, was completely
incapable of defending her son and was but were still present in his
deranged mind. His fear didn't even stop after he had been loved and
admired by millions.”

But, what happen with people who were loved in their childhood?
They have a better live without violent and horror. There are people
who grow up with loving and protecting parents who “can later find a
kind, sympathetic partner, can organize their life and become good
parents”, even “if they have to go through the horror of a concentration
camp during their adolescence” after learning about Pablo Picasso we
can mention the severe trauma that the child Pablo Picasso underwent at
the age of three: the earthquake in Malaga in 1884, the flight from the
family's apartment into a cave that seemed to be more safe, and
eventually witnessing the birth of his sister in the same cave under
these very scary circumstances. However, Picasso survived these traumas
without later becoming psychotic or criminal because he was protected by
his very loving parents. They were able to give him what he most needed
in this chaotic situation: empathy, compassion, protection and the
feeling of being safe in their arms.

Thanks to the presence of his parents, the two enlightened
witnesses of his fear and pain, not only during the earthquake but also
throughout his whole childhood, he was later able to express his early,
frightening experiences in a creative way. In Picasso's famous painting
"Guernica" we can see what might have happened in the mind of the
three-year-old child while he was watching the dying people and horses
and listening to the children screaming for help on the long walk to the
shelter. Small children can go unscared even through bomb-raids if they
feel safe in the arms of their parents.

It is much more difficult for a child to overcome early
traumatizations if they are caused by their own parents. Here we have an
another example. I analysed the childhood of the writer Franz Kafka.
I’ll try to show that the nightmares he describes in his stories recount
exactly what might have happened to the small, severely neglected infant
Kafka. He was born into a family in which he must have felt like the

e
hero of The Castle (ordered about but not needed and constantly misled)
or like K. in The Trial (charged with incomprehensible guilt) or like
The Hunger Artist who never found the food he was so strongly longing
for. Thanks to the love and the deep comprehension of his sister Otla in
his puberty, his late "helping witness," Kafka could eventually give
expression to his suffering in writing. Does it mean that he therefore
overcame his traumatic childhood? He could indeed write his work, full
of knowledge and wisdom, but why did he die so early—in his thirties—of
tuberculosis? It happened in a time when he knew many people who loved
and admired him. However, these good experiences could not erase the
unconscious emotions and memories stored in his body.

Kafka was hardly aware of the fact that the main sources of his
imagination were deeply hidden in his early childhood. Most writers
aren't. But the amnesia of an artist or writer, though sometimes a
burden for their body, doesn't have any negative consequences for
society. The readers simply admire the work and are rarely interested in
the writers' infancy . However, the amnesia of politicians or leaders of
sects does afflict countless people, and will continue to do so, as long
as society remains blind to the important connections between the denial
of traumatic experiences in early childhood and the destructive,
criminal actions of individuals.

An American writer, Richard Bach, is well knowing by his Fantasy
and Philosophy. He solves difficult problems, which are connected with
“Human psychology”. He does not have special education, Richard is only
a pilot (in any case, he was…before he began to write). His first book
was “Sea-gull”, than “breach through the eternity”, “One”, “Plane” etc.
In this stories and novels Bach taught upon lots of different topics,
and one of them is about childhood. This man deadly believe that a
person cannot live without his past. And what do we have there, in the
past? Of course, childhood! This topic glassed in one of the latest
work: “Running from the safety”. The main idea of the plot is that
“Richard-men” ( he prefers to write about himself rather then to work
with heroes) meat “Richard-kid”. It means that he, the old one, meat in
his own world a little boy of eight years old. This boy is “HE”, but
from the past. In this novel Richard Bach tried to answer the the
question: ”What will you do if you meat yourself-from-the-past?” The own
correct response he has able to find is “to learn everything what you
can from this kid”. What can you learn from the little child from your
past? What he can give us? This questions can appeared in the mind of
everybody… in “Running…” Bach neatly respond to them: “he remembers all
what I have forgot” Really, we have spoken about this already, all
information which people get in an early age cannot be remembered
further. But kids retain all this, cause it still in their active
memory. Some people had critical moments in their childhood, which

cal moments in their childhood, which
influence their lifes, but they cannot remember this episode – the most
impotent one – and that’s why cannot change the situation. For example,
a man is a looser all his live. He cannot do anything with this. Why?
After memorising his childhood, he remembered that he was whipped by
schoolboys and after this all the school was laughing at him…He
understood everything and tried to change the attitude to this situation
at last we won for first time. Richard Bach had such critical moments
too. At first, the death of his brother and his climbing to the
water-tower. After this he understood that he was not a little boy, and
“left the family and common world” after this moment he decided to
become a pilot and “made the biggest fault” in the live: went to the
army. Why he did it? For what he left the family? Why his behaviour was
such as it was? Richard cannot understand. But after the talk with
Dickey (Little Bach) he was able to explain all this to himself and “
the desert” – Dickey’s world – “converted in a field of green grass”. At
first Richard was not able to “survive in the dark of the mind”. But
Dickey was able to return to Bach “the part of himself”, and he did it.
Now he could be “ out of space and time”. Telling things about the live
and answering to Dickey’s questions, Bach found lots of responses for
his own issues. “Dickey knows everything about the childhood, and I
knows everything about one of his Futures”, - told Richard to his wife.
So, the boy could find all the answers in several months, and spare 50
years of had learning the live. The man remembered the half of his life
and understood the roots of all the problems. And both took that they
could not live without each other. “I preserve his future, he preserves
my past”, - said Richard Bach and he was absolutely right.

Conclusion (Part 3).

So, we can see that the question about the Childhood is really
important. It found the glass in many spheres of human life and men’s
deeds. It is not a science theory, but a reality. We know that every cow
is an animal doesn't include the statement that every animal is a cow.
It has been proved that many adults have had the good fortune to break
the cycle of abuse. Yet I can certainly aver that I have never come
across persecutors who weren't themselves victims in their childhood,
though most of them don't know it because their feelings are repressed.
The less these criminals know about themselves, the more dangerous they
are to society. So I think it is crucial to grasp the difference between
the statement, "every victim becomes a persecutor," which is wrong, and
the statement, "every persecutor was a victim in his childhood," which I
consider true. The problem is that, feeling nothing, he remembers
nothing, realises nothing, and this is why surveys don't always reveal
the truth. Yet the presence of a warm, enlightened witness ...
therapist, social worker, lawyer, judge ... can help the criminal unlock

inal unlock
his repressed feelings and restore the unrestricted flow of
consciousness. This can initiate the process of escape from the vicious
circle of amnesia and violence. Working toward a better future cannot be
done without legislation that clearly forbids corporal punishment toward
children and makes society aware of the fact that children are people
too. The whole society and its legal system can then play the role of a
reliable, enlightened and protecting witness for children at risk,
children of adolescent, drug addicted criminals who may themselves
become predators without such assistance. The only reason why a parent
might smack his children is the parent's own history. All other
so-called reasons, such as poverty and unemployment, are pure
mystification. There are unemployed parents who don't spank their
children and there are many wealthy parents who maltreat their children
in the most cruel way and teach them to minimise the terror by calling
it the right education. With a law prohibiting corporal punishment
towards children, people of the next generation will not have recorded
the highly misleading information in their brain, an almost irreversible
damage. They will be able to have empathy with a child and understand
what has been done to children over millennia. It is a realistic hope to
think that then (and only then) the human mind and behaviour will
change. With a law that forbids spanking every citizen becomes an
enlightened witness.

So, we see that everything lays in ourselves. It is easy to understand
that people can change everything around themselves. The theory about
personal children problems is really correct. Now everybody can just
analyse his past and remember the main idea of his last deeds. They will
help him to solve the difficulties. It is the easiest way to survive in
your own inside world, which can be a bright one. But the main problem
is that not everybody knows about this theory, and especially such
people can not be happy and live an easy life else the whole world can
be changed. People will understand all their problems and (it is
important) now how to behave and solve all the difficulties. It means –
no depress, mad people and their deaths, good social situation, at last.
To my mind we should try to use this material, because it can help us
and it will be so easy to understand each other and, at the first term,
ourselves, is not it?

The list of literature

1. “People, who play in games” A. Birn

2. “Psychology” Camille B. Wortman

Elizabeth F.
Loftus

3. “ The Childhood Trauma” Alise Miller

4. “Running from Safty” R. Bach

5. “Interpretation of dreams” S. Freud

The list of literature. The 2nd book.

The list of literature. The 1st book.

The list of literature. The 2nd book

The list of literature. The 5th book.

The list of literature. The 3rd book.

The list of literature. The 1st book.

The list of literature. The 1st book.

The list of literature. The 3rd book.

The list of literature. The 3rd book.

The list of literature. The 2nd book.

The list of literature. The 5th book.

The list of literature. The 3rd book.

The list of literature. The 3rd book.

The list of literature. The 4th book. Other quotes are from this book.

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